Forgive and Forget

I came to a link given by RT which says about biblical forgiveness.(http://www.purposedrivenlife.com/en-US/FreeTools/devotional/todaysDevo/Devotional.htm?a=2620&z=1.

What is actually forgiveness?
"Forgiveness is unconditional.
Forgiveness doesn’t minimize the offense.
Forgiveness doesn’t mean the relationship resumes without change.
Forgiveness isn’t forgetting what’s happened."

Also, it says here:
"The only way you can forget something is to actually refocus on something else. "

"God causes everything to work together for the good of those who love God and are called according to his purpose for them. "Romans 8:28 (NLT)

"Trust God, not your own judgment. He will lead you and clear the road for you"-Proverbs 3: 5-6.

I am learning to forgive and forget.